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Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Setups....thats what i call em.?//

Relationships

The first word that comes to my mind is ‘complex’ when I hear that word, there’s nothing like an ideal there!!
My friend the other day was whining about the fact that she hates it when her guy talks about all his previous conquests so openly in front of her ,laughing at it or sometimes sermonizing in front of his friends or when they are in a group, it is demeaning to hear ur guy say all that especially with the current girl around if I may put it .Its insulting and if I were her (tho that wud neva be) I would throw hot soup in his freaking face.Its disgusting , have heard their fights and he claims he is being honest .Honest bullshit. .Think about it would anyone wanna discuss the nitty gritties of all the past and then dig out the muck and throw at each oher or when there’s a heated discussion happening .Talk about hypocrisy its sheer insensitiveness towards your partner as she would be the next girl soon in the list .I hope not though. .fingers crossed.%%
.I think that this kind of stuff should be reserved for an intimate moment alone with one’s partner.. coz flashbacks serve no pupose jus spell War…and I don’t consider spilling out gory details as deceitful it is practical guys for crying out loud ..i mean that poor girl hearts of hearts is at all times complexed coz she never knows when would she be compared o some random person and is at all times rather coy about all those feelings lest they also be paraded in public…coz u never know when such details willl be thrown at them. .Its important to be sensitive to your partners need when u claim u r in a relationship. .Its not about planning trips together but its also about being there, .knowing all those unspoken things… a warm hug,saying ure there , I mean my father till now is the only man I have known who knows at all times what maa likes and surprises her often coz she is this person who would just never demand anything ..I mean I have never come across any1 as satiated as her. .she is satiated with life that its unimaginable a thing that none of her children have acquired…being satisfied ..i mean look at me .the day I got a car I wanted a nice music system..when I got that i wanted woofers ,when I got that I wanted to drive my dads car!:)..but hey we are not talking of me at the moment…I mean am the sort of person who verbalizes every need ,every aspect of my life ..i have grown in an extremely communicative environment wherein each word that I said was respected, argued, fought shared, joked but the bottom line is it was always given an attentive ear and respected.. !!
I think that was a very nurturing experience as It is important to articulate feelings and emotions…ALMOST ALWAYS...watsay??

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Its sheer injustice on part of the guy to compare your friend with his ex.....a comparision can only be done between two COMPARABLE comodities.....first of all a human being is not a comodity...and secondly no two living beings are same, we all are unique in our very own ways!Relationships are like crystals, you don't realize how much you love it until it breaks.....and the guy would understand the value of the crystal (your friend in this case) when he won't have it to flaunt. And if he doesn't bother much when the crystal breaks, he never deserved the crystal.....punk was born to handle glass-items-only then! Someone better go and whisper in his ear 'Son, don't touch what you can't grab'.

Meanwhile, coming back to relationships, please do not call them 'Setups'...the word you used is on the harsher side.
The more you judge, the less time you have to love.....and when you love someone from your heart (not brain or anyother bodypart for that matter of fact!) you know that you won't even feel that 24/7 your eyes flash and your heart sings and suddenly you do not wish to go to heaven when you die coz you realise that heaven has been created for you on earth and its worth living for. I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everytime you fight, that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worthwhile....and the fun comes to it all when the person you love does the same!!!
Love someone who can make your blood connections appear weaker, (its essential for its being worthwhile!), who when is not around is conquering your mind and heart with his lack of presence, who is not comparable to any dead or living subject or object.....who cannot be wrapped in words, who empowers you like god when the world around starts taking a toll on you.

A little piece of advice for the lovely women being mishandled by the MEC:

In our deepest moments of struggle, frustration, fear, and confusion, we are being called upon to reach in and touch our hearts. Then, we will know what to do, what to say, how to be. What is right is always in our deepest heart of hearts. It is from the deepest part of our hearts that we are capable of reaching out and touching another human being. It is, after all, one heart touching another heart.

“If it is nothingness that awaits me, let me atleast fight against injustice demeaning my existance, let me fight against destiny....even though without hope of victory....coz who the fuck wants victory anyways, all I need is lots of 'Me' for little 'Me'! I don't know who you are lady, all I know is you are angelic Nikita's friend, but all I can tell you is be with the right man who treats you right.

RE-EXAMINE ALL YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD
DISMISS WHAT INSULTS YOUR SOUL
coz Gaurav says you gotta be a Venom, a Pheanom, a Rage!

God bless - Gaurav Pareek (for you Nikita, you are the world's most perfect woman, and I am still your Gaurav with a 'G'...LOL)